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The problem is that we never hear about it. Women are tough, strong and impervious to use. Maybe. But why then, do I receive a constant stream of e-mail with regard to emotional use? Because like it or not, it is 2 women in bikini. The key is to spot it. Remember that I use victim in the spirit of the definition of the word. The word victim isn’t a synonym for weak or effeminate. Some of you may need to read that before you face the truth. So here is where you discover whether or not your woman is abusive. Does the woman fit the profile? I define emotional use as a 2 women in bikini on your confidence, self-esteem, pride, and identity. When you no longer feel comfortable or secure with her, you may be a victim. Does the woman insult you with malice? Even the odd put-down is cause for concern, but your woman is an expert at the personal insult. At even a minor provocation, the woman seizes the opportunity to tear into you and deflate your ego and masculine pride. Does the woman need to be in control? A control freak may not be a source of emotional use but pair it with another danger sign and there is cause for concern. If your partner is overcome with a sense of paranoia and violent suspicion when you fail to call, show up, ask for her consent, or choose to make a plan without her, take heed. Her need to be in control is a desperate ploy to reel you in and swoman your sense of self. If you give your tacit approval, you bear the mark of a victim. Do you give in and go to her, no matter the occasion? Similar to the point above, the fear of verbal reprisal has you under her thumb. You try to convince yourself that life is good when the relationship is free from turmoil. But the price you pay is to never engage her in an argument or debate, and therefore endure a loss by default. My advice is to look at the big video.