posted by on Feb 8
You can date how troublesome this can be for them, as the constant search for eternal love is frustratingly never appeased. To give you a hands-on approach, I used to date a woman that used every ex-boyfriend as a launching pad to select her new beaus, which, if you ask me, is a disaster waiting to happen. An old conquest of mine, Alison, would use everything around her, not just ex-flings, as a means of comparison, look how this guy is buying his girlfriend flowers; date how the birds sing in unison, and so on. If you were really sorry, you’d buy me flowers. Now how does buying flowers and showing up unannounced at her doorstep on a rainy night make up for a mistake I might have made? It doesn’t. The problem here is that the woman was comparing this love to the one found in movies, with the happily ever after nonsense. If you’re asking yourself how this relates to your girlfriend comparing you to her ex, then you’re on the right track. What I mean is that it doesn’t really matter what the woman compares you to, but rather the fact that the woman is comparing you to something/someone. Next time you have to sit through an interrogation and lecture about how Oprah thinks a relationship should consist of openness, have your cards ready. If the woman doesn’t like you going out with your buddies even when you don’t come home too late then there’s something fishy about this. If the woman doesn’t give you a valid answer, it’s because there’s an underlying reason for her dislike. Why can’t you stay home for once? I just want to spend some time alone with you. This would make sense if you were always on the go, roaming the city and hitting the bar scene.
But considering you’ve spent the last 12 days together not that you’re counting or anything, her exclamation makes no sense. So why does the woman keep pushing for your presence at all times? In my case, the woman made the slip-up of telling me that her ex used to go out days on end, and the woman wouldn’t hear from him for days. And I quote; He went to a club on Friday night, and I only tracked him down Monday afternoon. Now don’t get me wrong, I can understand how this could be devastating for a woman, but what is more harmful is extrapolating this isolated event towards her new mate’s behavior. My response to this case of paranoia was, You refer to this guy as your ex for a reason. So don’t put me in the same category because you know I’m worth more than that. This wakeup call usually forces women to open their eyes to reality and cherish what they have in their possession at that moment in time. Wmen have to understand that there’s no use in dwelling over women gone wild and going for a new and improved model that has all the old practical characteristics, plus a couple of new gadgets on the side. So next time the woman compares your beliefs and actions to how her exes Jimbo and Paulie used to screw up, tell her that she’s well on her way to finding another ex under her belt. That should knock some sense into her. You have probably heard the term they look so cute together, many times before. But what about those guys that never seem to have that going for them? What about those single women that portray the characteristics of eternal bachelorhood? Although some women are destined to a life filled with many women and a constant array of dates, others have a different path through life where they spend it without the company of a lover. How do you know if you are destined to go down that path and remain single for good? While this checklist should give you insight into the possibility of never finding everlasting love, only time will really tell. Are you the type to enjoy the latest Steven Seagal movie by yourself at the theater?
Although your women gone wild choices should be questioned, this shows that you like doing things alone and don’t mind engaging in activities on your own. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t enjoy a good movie by yourself, but making a habit of it might be an indication of what lies ahead. Going out with your buddies is probably the ultimate test of manhood, but turning down a date with a good-looking woman to spend time with your posse is an evident indication that you prefer being a bachelor. I don’t care how important you say your friends are; going on a date doesn’t mean you don’t like your friends as much, it simply indicates that your priorities are in the right women gone wild. Just think about it for a moment. What would you rather do, spend the night at home with your drinking buddies, play poker, watch the scrambled network, and exude machismo, or go on a date with a voluptuous blonde that smells as good as the woman looks? Do you prefer blondes or brunettes? Skinny or plump? Tall or short? No matter what your preferences are, chances are that you are never satisfied since you always wait for the next best thing. The problem with always waiting for something better only increases your level for approval, inversely proportional to your level of acceptance. Remember that there is always somebody better out there, but that doesn’t make them better for you . Every woman has flaws if you look close enough, but if you continuously search for defects rather than qualities, you’re going to ultimately find yourself by yourself. Ah words of the wise. Your friends know by now that you have a very strict checklist that any potential date must abide by. They have probably tried to set you up with women you should be attracted to. Will you go so far as to turn down a date that is handed to you on a silver platter? If you answered yes, add another check to the possibility of becoming the dreaded eternal bachelor. What do you attribute more value to, a strip club or a real, women gone wild?